Lola Zabeth

I just know that your tresses are moist and buttery soft from the Triple Phat Coconut Custard Hair Masque I hit you with last time, yes? Now it’s time to lock it all in with this decadent and creamy Whipped Key Lime Coconut Butter. This mix takes a little more elbow grease then your average recipe, but trust that it’s well worth it.

To make this super delish and great smelling butter for your natural hair – we’re talking margarita hair party for your Bermuda mama style, mix the following lush ingredients and let’s get it (click the links to shop ‘em)! [click to continue…]


Steve Harvey wants us to Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man, Ralph Banks says we should “marry out“, and now the latest survey conducted by The Washington Post and the Kaiser Family Foundation suggests that we are hyper-career driven workhorses who don’t prioritize marriage. It seems that everyone and their mom has an opinion regarding the so-called plight of the Single Black Woman. When did finding (and keeping) a companion require the help of so many “experts”? It’s no wonder some of us have simply adopted an I-Don’t-Need-A-Man mentality. But for all the PhDs and Relationship Gurus, I found that the most refreshing and no-nonsense gem came from none other than controversial rapper, T.I.

In a recent episode of Vh1′s T.I. & Tiny: The Family Hustle, the couple is discussing T.I.’s upcoming appearances, an unfinished album and many other obligations he needs to meet in an attempt to get his post-prison career back on track. Although clearly stressed, T.I. calmly turns to Tiny, mother of his children and wife of 18 months, and says, [click to continue…]


There are times when you need a hair product to work it’s magic on the outside. You know, hang out on the cuticle like a  club bouncer keeping the riff raff from slipping past the velvet rope. Then there are times when you need the product to stop playing games and get it in. With a huge dose of coconut, that’s exactly what this mix does.

Gather these ingredients and lehgo! [click to continue…]


“Dear Lola, I don’t need your advice. I just need to vent. I am so sick and tired of my cousin, Kris (names changed), and her “good” hair. Before you get rowdy about my choice of words, let me explain. Kris’s hair is just as nappy as my own hair. However, I call it “good” because it seems unstoppable. And she doesn’t deserve it. I’ll get to that in a minute.

We both big chopped at the same time, but Kris had a [click to continue…]


Hello, my name is Lola, and I am a ratchett TV watcher.

Confession: I have watched the “Ridickulous” episode of The Real Housewives of Atlanta three times. Bravo’s highest rated reality show has never been short of shock-value. But this particular episode far exceeds the show’s typical finger pointing, wig-snatching and over-the-top drama. I had to watch the episode again, you know, just to be certain that that really happened, that my eyes didn’t deceive me. Then I watched it a third time, for um, research purposes. Yeah. I’m comfortable with these admissions only because I’m fairly certain that I’m not alone. We could just chalk it up as a “guilty pleasure”. It is pleasurable in a twisted sort of way. Guilty? Perhaps, but do we feel guilty enough to turn the channel?

The Real Housewives of Atlanta without a doubt wins the Emmy for [click to continue…]


Do you have good hair? I do. If you are not sure if you do or not, Dr. Bella and Dr. Lola are here to take your temperate and subscribe you (yes subscribe, not prescribe) some agave elixir for your ego and hair.

First let’s do our “do you have good hair?” checklist to see if you have any of the symptoms of goodhairitis. If any of these apply to you, say, “why yes doctor!” after each one.

  1. You love it so much even though your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, friend-with-benefits, baby daddy, baby mama, kids, kids’ babysitter, mama, daddy, sister, brother,  auntie, bee-eff-eff, frenemy, professor, soror, play cousin, mother-in-law, nosy neighbor, boss, bitchy co-worker, pastor, choir director, manicurist, zumba instructor, dentist, ob-gyn, fave blogger, hair stylist, shampoo girl, bus driver, girl that threads your brows, or any other random mo-fo’s off the street hate it.
  2. You love it so much that it has [click to continue…]

at home hair spa | green tea & ginger bentonite bars (unplugged)

November 28, 2011 Bentonite Clay Series
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We’ve been getting ‘bent’ for a minute now—treating out tresses to bentonite clay and all of its benefits (check this post out for the full deets). For this third mix of the ‘Get Bent’ series I’m gonna keep the party going, but slow the record down a smidge. Not only do these bars cleanse without stripping, they [...]

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at home hair spa | bentonite mint chocolate bars (best i ever had)

November 21, 2011 Bentonite Clay Series
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Last week I got you “bent.” I broke down bentonite clay; what it is, how it works and why you need it in your life (if you missed that be sure to check it out before you proceed so that you’ll know what you’re working with). Now, I’m gonna go deeper and make your bra strap pop. [...]

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at home hair spa | bentonite butter bars (get your hair right!)

November 14, 2011 at home hair spa
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I’m about to get straight up ‘bent’- with bentonite clay to be exact. Although it’s been a minute since I kicked the ‘poo, every so often I need to check the tresses into rehab for some serious detox. Bentonite clay is ube-absorbent and sucks up product build-up, dirt, and toxins leaving the curls fresh and [...]

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cocktail fridays | dragon lady martini (this ain’t for your hair)

November 11, 2011 Cocktails & Conversations
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The holidays are upon us and comfort and joy are at the top of my wish list, and this martini has it in spades. Not only does this taste amaze, but its decorative look screams festive fun. I can only do so much with hair and drinks, so this time it’s all about the drink. [...]

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{at home hair spa} hempseed hair gelato (ain’t misbehavin’)

October 31, 2011 at home hair spa
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My hair doesn’t always behave. Sometimes she likes to put her hands in the air, and wave them–you know the rest. Times like these I need something a tad on the heavy side, like this pomade, to make her have a seat. You can check your tresses too with this quick recipe. In a glass [...]

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cocktail fridays: pomegranate champagne remix (poppin’ bottles, curls a poppin’)

October 28, 2011 at home hair spa
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Sometimes bad bubbly happens to good people – especially around the holidays (so we should all get ready to prepare ourselves). It never fails, some well-meaning friend or family member will show up on your doorstep with good cheer, glad tidings, and a $5 bottle of champagne. (No, they didn’t!) And I know you have one, [...]

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