i’d be willing to bet that any 4 natural has has this “problem” at some point in their journey – most likely in the beginning of their natural stage.
though i did experience them, there was a time when i had no idea what to do about them…
them. you know, those nasty little balls of hair – aka – knots! boooo to knots!
the other day i received a text message from my niece asking for some advice. the text read:
auntie, why does my hair get so tangled even when it’s dry? if i run my fingers through it, little balls come out. what can i do?
well, little niece, your problem could be two-fold. the first is that your hair is dry/not being moisturized properly and the second (which may not be applicable) is that you are not detangling your hair good enough.
so, on to the first part of the problem: DRYNESS
now, i know you didn’t mention that your hair was dry, but i’m pretty sure this is where we need to start because if your hair was properly moisturized, you would not have this big a problem. i do think that no matter what, naturals, including myself, will have a slight problem with hair curling up on itself, such is the life of the kinky girl, however, it’s more of a passing nuisance than a problem and it def won’t be a problem when running your fingers through your hair.
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